Experiences

We tend to be involved a lot in other people’s business than our own. You must have heard the phase ‘being judgemental’. So, is ‘being judgemental’ good or bad? Isn’t it crucial to be judgemental while interviewing a candidate for a job, or choosing your friends or relations? Everyone makes judgements all the times then why, only certain people are accused of being judgemental. Is it a crucial skill or an unconscious bad habit? The answer lies in the fine difference between making judgements and being judgemental. Making judgements comes from a balanced and neutral mind but on the other hand being judgemental comes from an imbalanced and reactive mind. Although, judging people and things is a very natural human behaviour but the problem comes when we look at people and things through our black and white filter of beliefs without knowing the whole truth. When we have an opinion of someone’s behaviour with no basis for making that assessment other than prejudiced conception then we...